Friday, October 7, 2016

Jyoti Surve

I absolutely love this picture. It says so much for people who are living with HIV. 


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Here is a message from Jyoti Surve I found on Facebook.




It is not very easy living as a person with HIV. We go through various ups and downs. We have our fair share of depression depending on the medications we are in. It also highly depend on the living condition as well. We fight with inner demons though we look fit and fine from outside. We need emotional support. We require you when we are not able to fight alone. We need you to help us, love us, support us to pull ourself through. Why abandon us, break the relationship or destroy the marriage when you think you can't cope with us anymore? What if something happens to you? What if you were sick or bedridden? Does that mean we should leave you to your own mercy and selfishly lead the life with a new-found healthy partner, finding happiness in them while your better half struggle to cope with HIV?? Remembered why you married in the first place.... remember the marriage vows "in sickness or in health, till death do us part". Well yes, we have HIV, does that mean we are only loved till the time it becomes too much for you?? Understand the plight that person living with HIV go through, understand the faith and trust that he/she had put on you, understand the effort he/she is making hard to stay in the marriage, understand that when it is not within thy control then we need you - know that we aren't asking for sympathy, just understanding to walk beside us rather than making our life even more difficult and painful. 



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